Richard Johnson PAGE SIX - SELITA Ebanks doesn't need a man to buy her gems. The Victoria's Secret stunner, recently linked to Kanye West, was spotted alone at the Hearts on Fire jewelry store at The Water Club by Borgata in Atlantic City, where she tried on some major bling. After some intense browsing, Ebanks settled on a diamond band. "She slid it on to her finger and started laughing, 'I'm engaged to myself! I'm marrying me!' " said our spy. Ebanks dropped $9,000 on the ring and strolled out.